... and, yes, it can be "Ms Wrong" and "Ms Right". The Freedom Programme is clear that women can be abusive too, as our MRA friends keep reminding us. It's also clear that the vast majority of abused partners are women, being abused by men. There are lots of reasons for this, mainly boiling down to the fact that men have more power in this world.
The Dominator isn't just one kind of abuser - some men manage to be all the Mr Wrongs at once, many flip from one style to another. Men may be "not all that bad" but why should you put up with one or two abusive behaviours? It's worth looking into healthy relationships to reset your standards / boundaries.