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Bikini line problems

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Breadcakes · 15/05/2024 23:39

I'm going on a 2 week family holiday with DP, his parents, 2 BILs and their partners. We're staying in a villa with a pool that's right by the beach, so will be spending a lot of time in swimwear.

However. My bikini line hair grows so fast and I get thick dark stubble. I'll need to get waxed the day before I go and hairs will start noticably growing back within 3 days. If I shave, I get horrendous ingrown hairs so I'll just have to leave it. I can't afford laser treatment and a bit worried about getting it anyway because of stories about poorly trained technicians etc.

I love swimming and so sick of this and really anxious and self-conscious about it - I wish I could just carelessly whack on a swimming costume and enjoy myself, but I need to carry out meticulous maintenence checks every time I get into swimwear! I usually wear a swim shortsuit to my local pool to cover up the issue, but I don't want to spend most of the time wearing unattractive, practical swimshorts when everyone else will be in lovely bikinis! Any advice welcome!

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Nail123 · 17/05/2024 00:23

Wax strips? Can get them from Poundland and Boots etc. Warm them up with your hands and then just put on the hairs and wax them off.

I get my husband to do most of my waxing for me! 😆

Bluebellsinthewind · 18/05/2024 20:37

@IamSlave it doesn't sit tight on you. It feels like a normal swim suit.

WeightoftheWorld · 18/05/2024 20:46

I have the same type hair as you OP but personally I just don't care that much about wearing so little clothing that people can easily see my pubes.

I wear legsuits or tankinis/costumes with swim shorts and I don't worry or feel anxious, I enjoy my holidays.

CrissCrossAppleSauce · 19/05/2024 03:16

If you’re already waxing regularly, then the epilator won’t hurt more. Also go for a wax pre holiday then run the epilator over every few days( or day if you need) then it’s only picking up a few hairs each time so much less painful

But I still can’t say how much better it is to use the at home IPL. It really is fantastic and can do it on your own schedule - which is why I started with an epilator years ago. I just can’t be bothered getting to appointments and this I can do in the evening when I actually have some time. I have the braun one, been using since the covid years and barely have to do anything now

ladyofshertonabbas · 19/05/2024 03:26

Another fan of IPL here. Had so much black hair. Got rid of most of it 8 years ago (salon). Wish I’d done it earlier. Go for it.

Caraway10 · 19/05/2024 03:29

I haven’t read every post but this stuff really works (or the cream version is good too - absolutely stinks, but will work on even the most stubborn hair)

Long term I agree with PP’s - laser is the best thing I’ve ever spent money on

Bikini line problems
Agii · 19/05/2024 04:40

IPL hair removal! I had the same problem and ever since I bought Braun ipl, I haven't experienced these issues :)

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