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I'm really attracted to a man at my work

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Carly944 · 13/05/2024 20:20

I used to work in smaller offices in an industry that was mostly female. Most of my colleagues were female.

I've now moved to work in a completely different area: finance.

I now work is a very large office with a lot of men and women.

I had never really worked with men before, it's great in one way seeing men every day, but it also brings up "should I" dilemmas.

I'm really attracted to this one man at work. I'm attracted to him and I really like him

A couple of things that he has said has made me think he is attracted to me too. Or at least he doesn't think I'm repulsive.

Anyway I think about him a lot.

But I just think that it's probably not worth trying to make a move, as the potential for disaster is so huge.

If I went out with him for a little bit, then we stopped, it would probably be extremely awkward bumping him into the workplace after.

The old "don't dip your nib in the office ink"

Etc. but he's so fine. (

I guess I'll just admire him and leave it at that.

Has anyone here dated anyone from work? What happened

OP posts:
Powderblue1 · 13/05/2024 21:47

I married my work romance. Turned out great for us

TheFireflies · 13/05/2024 21:54

ElaineMBenes · 13/05/2024 20:23

Has anyone here dated anyone from work? What happened

I married him 😂

So did I. And it was fine. And then I divorced him, and then it wasn’t fine at all and I had to find a new job.

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