Tidying up after himself

[DustyLee123]

AIBU to expect a grown man to wipe up crumbs after he’s made something to eat, re-cover the potatoes so they don’t go green, and clean up his toothpaste in the sink ? 😡😡😡

Yes, this is highly unreasonable. Now stop complaining on here and get back to cleaning up after your man-toddler.

But if I say something I get the vibes that he thinks I’m nagging.

You explain to him that it's unreasonable that he expects you to clean up after him like his maid. When he replies I don't expect you to you ask him if he doesn't clean it who does he think will clean it? Then you tell him he is making a choice in whether he respects you or not and you have no intention of being in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you.

He can then choose whether he is willing to do as you ask.

The other option is continue to clean up after him and be the nag when you ask him to do it.

Stuff like this only gets worse not better