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Mags9010 · 24/04/2024 12:38

A gut feeling had me investigating on my husbands 'personal life'.

I found an Adultwork deactivated account, and a deleted number of a person, when added to whatsapp was clearly an escort. We had discussed all and he states this was all old and the number was an apparent blocked number whom he added to see who it was then deleted. Smells like bullshit really.

We have 2 young kids and he has been a great father and husband up until recently when this feeling came over me. My mood is low and I really have no one to confide in about the situation.

Anyways we have tried to move on and I am trying but just can't completely move on. Good days and bad days. Am I kidding myself to try and believe him?

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Milkie5678 · 25/07/2024 11:56

Hi I am going through the exact thing but he has now admitted to going . Trust your gut and keep asking , look at the bank statements for cash withdrawals , he may have an account you can’t see , find escorts in the local area and see if he has left reviews for them under his username . You click in the number next to their name and it gives reviews . Escorts may have even left him a review if you can get into the old account. Go in the account there might me emails from him trying to book. Look at the log in history and it’ll show when he logged in and how many times . You can also search for escorts on there without creating an account so know that he may have been on many times and just got their numbers without actually logging in . You can create an account very easy . Sadly If he was on there and he has numbers .. he has probably gone .. I could be wrong but .. I wasn’t wrong and it’s taken me week to finally get the truth . It’s absolutely heartbreaking what these men are capable of . Sending love and strength. Please please DM me if you need any support or further help

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