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Carol Baum talking about Sydney sweeney

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Itsnotwhatyouknowitswhoyouknow · 20/04/2024 22:23

Shouldn’t women support other women?

What was the point of her comments saying Sydney can’t act and wasn’t pretty, how mean

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YankSplaining · 20/04/2024 22:35

I thought it was sort of harsh and unnecessary, but she doesn’t owe anyone her support because they both happen to have been born with XX chromosomes. So I think it was one human being nasty about another human, not a woman failing to support another woman.

Mumaway · 20/04/2024 22:43

It was not necessary for her to say it, although she's not wrong. And whoever dressed the poor woman in that film needs shooting - what's with the terrible fitting bikini tops??

VivienneDelacroix · 20/04/2024 22:53

It's one thing to not think someone is talented, but commenting on her looks was unnecessary and is deeply anti-feminist as it plays into patriarchal views on women's worth being connected to their looks.

Itsnotwhatyouknowitswhoyouknow · 20/04/2024 23:26

@VivienneDelacroix Exactly

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YankSplaining · 21/04/2024 00:16

VivienneDelacroix · 20/04/2024 22:53

It's one thing to not think someone is talented, but commenting on her looks was unnecessary and is deeply anti-feminist as it plays into patriarchal views on women's worth being connected to their looks.

Part of Sydney Sweeney’s appeal as an actress is being beautiful and sexy, and I don’t think it’s “patriarchal” or “deeply anti-feminist” to acknowledge that.

Again, I think the comments were nasty, but not anti-feminist.

misszebra · 21/04/2024 00:17

jealous old hag. the moment she mentioned looks it all became very clear.

theduchessofspork · 21/04/2024 00:25

She can act and she doesn’t owe anyone pretty (although I think she is). I didn’t see the rom com, perhaps it is shite.

Honing in on her looks is anti-feminist for sure.

theduchessofspork · 21/04/2024 00:25

misszebra · 21/04/2024 00:17

jealous old hag. the moment she mentioned looks it all became very clear.

Well you just did the same thing, so..

misszebra · 21/04/2024 00:28

theduchessofspork · 21/04/2024 00:25

Well you just did the same thing, so..

I am not jealous of carol baum. I think she is a nasty person, she could be drop dead gorgeous but her vile personality would take it away

EconomyClassRockstar · 21/04/2024 00:31

I LOVED Anyone But You. It was dumb, it was corny but the chemistry was there. It was everything it said on the tin. That said, both DD and I walked out saying, "Why didn't they give her bikini tops that actually fit?!" Costume Dept, it really wasn't that hard!

theduchessofspork · 21/04/2024 00:31

YankSplaining · 21/04/2024 00:16

Part of Sydney Sweeney’s appeal as an actress is being beautiful and sexy, and I don’t think it’s “patriarchal” or “deeply anti-feminist” to acknowledge that.

Again, I think the comments were nasty, but not anti-feminist.

I know but that’s not what the producer said - she said SS isn’t pretty and she can’t act - so why is she so popular?

Criticising a woman’s looks like that Is anti feminist IMO. She isn’t deconstructing Sydney Sweeney’s professional look, she’s just laying into her for not fitting her personal definition of pretty.

theduchessofspork · 21/04/2024 00:35

misszebra · 21/04/2024 00:28

I am not jealous of carol baum. I think she is a nasty person, she could be drop dead gorgeous but her vile personality would take it away

I’m sure, but calling a woman a hag is a very sexist and ageist thing to do - a hag means an older women who is so ugly she is repulsive.

What Baum said has nothing to do with what she looks like.

katebushh · 21/04/2024 09:17

Well she doesn't like her and she said so. End of story really.

Beezknees · 21/04/2024 09:21

theduchessofspork · 21/04/2024 00:35

I’m sure, but calling a woman a hag is a very sexist and ageist thing to do - a hag means an older women who is so ugly she is repulsive.

What Baum said has nothing to do with what she looks like.

She said Sydney wasn't pretty, so she did comment on her looks.

Valeriekat · 21/04/2024 10:34

misszebra · 21/04/2024 00:17

jealous old hag. the moment she mentioned looks it all became very clear.

Pot & kettle?

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