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Man is boring me - naked in the shower zzzz

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FairGoldSheep · 15/04/2024 01:37

I've been chatting to an old bf from my youth for a few years and we have occasionally met up and had a really nice time. We do live a long way from each other, so over the years the online chatting has got a bit racey.
We're both single & I'm happy for it to stay that way tbh.
Always, he wants to turn the chat to sex with me. We're not young anymore & so should I feel flattered that he still fancies me, as I do him?
But the sex chat has become so, so predictable, (my subject title says it all) or am I a prude? I just couldn't be bothered to engage today. I ask him how he is, how's life treating him etc but I never get that level of interest in ME back. I'm just a way of him getting a quick release without any effort aren't I...

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Tarquina · 15/04/2024 03:42

He's making it as clear as he possibly can that he is interested in you only for sexual purposes.

What you have to decide is whether you are happy with this? You will not be able to change this situation into a proper friendship by asking him things like how his day has gone etc etc.

steamedisbest · 26/05/2024 21:25

gross

I am sure you deserve better than…. this

dazzlingdoll · 26/05/2024 21:55

Lol clearly after a fuck get rid block

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