Moved out of marital home yesterday. EX DH said to me BIL is going to visit PIL so he will just take 2 of the kids with him so I said ok fine.
BIL dropped the kids back yesterday and I haven’t really spoke to him since me and DH split up. I was upstairs putting furniture away.
i never asked him to take the kids. The kids rarely see grandparents so was an opportunity for them to go. DH told me what was happening I never had an input.
Im now being spoken badly of by everyone! Not that I should be bothered as I am able to wash my hands with them all soon.
Would you say I’m ungrateful?