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Too fat for leggings?

26 replies

Ohyeahitsaneclipsetonight · 08/04/2024 17:49

I’m a size 16 these days, I love the simple black leggings and trainers look and it’s also so comfy, but I never wear it. How do you wear them, being bigger? Or do you? No way am I showing my bum, upper thighs, stomach area, so would have to be something longer? I’m thinking for shopping/school run etc, sick of wearing jeans

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TimesChangeAgain · 08/04/2024 17:51

In winter I just wear my long coat which goes to my knees! Now that’s getting too warm I’ll wear with short dresses/long tops, tunics, etc.

Ohyeahitsaneclipsetonight · 08/04/2024 17:54

@TimesChangeAgain What sort of long tops though and how would it work if it’s hot?

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PrincessTeaSet · 08/04/2024 18:06

Surely leggings are for all body shapes? Wear with a dress or tunic that is above the knee. Thin material, short sleeve for hot weather, cropped leggings also an option

Runningonempty01 · 08/04/2024 18:14

I think good quality leggings can be more flattering than jeans on all sizes. I like bright colours and patterns too. The game changer with leggings is spend what you would on jeans. I like patagonia and sweaty betty ones ( look our for sales)

ragifix · 08/04/2024 18:20

I agree that larger ladies can look good in good quality leggings and a well cut top. I'm on the larger side but have absolutely enormous calves, and leggings look awful on me for that reason. But if I had more elegant lower legs I'd definitely be in leggings and longline shirts year round.

babaisyou · 08/04/2024 18:23

I have big thighs/ calves and I just don't wear leggings. I have never found any that look good on me. I wear slim fit or straight jeans/ trousers, or shorts/ dresses in summer. The only time I would wear leggings is with a dress over them, or for exercising.

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 08/04/2024 18:28

Don’t wear with dresses that trend was 2000s .

you can wear them whatever size you are. I can’t stand jeans so leggings it is .

Fizzadora · 08/04/2024 18:34

I'm a size 18 and in winter wear Joe Browns leggings (thick, quite flattering fabric) with an attached skirt to try and disguise my belly, but I wear them with boots as I think my legs are too short and curvy for flats or trainers. As soon as it's warm enough I wear crop jeggings and Skechers flats.
I'm retired and mostly in the garden so don't need to dress up.

Luxell934 · 08/04/2024 18:42

Literally wear any top, jumper or hoody that covers your arse?

TimesChangeAgain · 08/04/2024 18:44

Ohyeahitsaneclipsetonight · 08/04/2024 17:54

@TimesChangeAgain What sort of long tops though and how would it work if it’s hot?

I feel like you’re over thinking this. Wear a top that’s long enough to cover the bits you want covered. It won’t make much difference in the heat, that more depends on the sleeves and weight of fabric.

RosaBaby2 · 08/04/2024 18:46

Yes anything that covers your bum is good to go!

BloodandGlitter · 08/04/2024 18:53

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 08/04/2024 18:28

Don’t wear with dresses that trend was 2000s .

you can wear them whatever size you are. I can’t stand jeans so leggings it is .

Going by the recent trend of everything 2000s they'll soon be fashionable again. I've seen skirt trousers for sale recently!

TunaCrunchy · 08/04/2024 19:05

Anything that covers your bum, oversized sweatshirts, a t shirt with a shirt partially undone works well or a coatigan etc .

I wouldn’t wear them when it’s hot.

FeelingSoOverwhelmed · 08/04/2024 19:09

Oversized sweatshirts, oversized or slouchy fit t-shirts, or a longline vest and a checked or denim shirt over are looks that I like! And size 16 is absolutely fine to wear them 😊
I don't tend to wear them when it's really hot.

PutOnYourRedShoesAndLetsDance · 08/04/2024 19:15

Leggings are meant to be worn with long tops aren't they? That come to your mid thigh to hide lumps and bumps.
I know we did first time around in the 80s.
Not to show your bum etc.

Ohyeahitsaneclipsetonight · 08/04/2024 19:16

@PutOnYourRedShoesAndLetsDance I see lots of mums/women with slightly shorter tops, def not covering, but they look great, so 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Vitriolinsanity · 08/04/2024 19:19

I'm a size 16 and wear mine with oversize Hush tops, sweatshirts etc with trainers

Uniqlo do plaid shirts that look good over a T-shirt with the leggings tucked into Converse

I don't wear them after Spring as I don't like the dress/legging look.

BlueScrunchies · 08/04/2024 19:19

I’m struggling to lose baby weight and am most comfortable in leggings and a long jumper / jumper dress, looks nice too 😊

Streel · 08/04/2024 19:24

Oversized sweatshirts or longline hoodies. Longline gillet or long coat if it’s cold.

I live in this at weekends!

I sack off black leggings once the weather warns up, though, as I don’t like long t-shirts or tunics and like you I am NOT letting my big arse and gut hang out.

Ohyeahitsaneclipsetonight · 08/04/2024 19:25

I don’t like with a dress either or a t-shirt tbh, just wouldn’t look right on me

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Alwaysalwayscold · 08/04/2024 19:31

Honestly I don't think leggings look flattering on anyone who isn't slim. They show absolutely everything, including anything that wobbles when you walk.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 08/04/2024 20:53

YOURS clothing do some really nice long button up blouses/shirts/tops.

PrincessTeaSet · 08/04/2024 21:05

Alwaysalwayscold · 08/04/2024 19:31

Honestly I don't think leggings look flattering on anyone who isn't slim. They show absolutely everything, including anything that wobbles when you walk.

I don't think this is true of good quality leggings in the correct size. I guess there comes a point where nothing hides the flab, but certainly black leggings with a loose bum covering top are fine for a size 16 I would say. Better than tight jeans anyway

ggggggooooo · 08/04/2024 22:07

Runningonempty01 · 08/04/2024 18:14

I think good quality leggings can be more flattering than jeans on all sizes. I like bright colours and patterns too. The game changer with leggings is spend what you would on jeans. I like patagonia and sweaty betty ones ( look our for sales)

Sadly sweaty Betty have gone off the rails quality wise. Sold out and they are now made really cheaply. Always running a sale. Its like those 'everything must go sales that are permanently on

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