I do cycling and there's a cycling event coming up, there's a man at work I get on with. I am not attracted to him in that way, I wouldn't say we were close but we chat here and there and he's pleasant.
Anyway I know he does cycling too as he initially told me about the club he attends.
I'm wondering if I should invite him to the event? No pressure if he doesn't want to, it would just be nice to have more contacts outside of work.
However a few months back I was good friends with another man at work. This time we were close and went for coffees and such like. I suggested that it would be great to go to the cinema one time as we were constantly talking about films, and he acted as if I'd asked him to marry me and clearly jumped to conclusions, and the result was him trying to ghost me.
He clearly overreacted but it's made me a little hesitant with male friends now.
Just not sure whether to ask this man about the cycling event?