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He's not interested, is he

6 replies

Rainbowpop · 02/04/2024 20:35

First date seemed to go well, said he wanted to do it again. Texted a little after I got back and it was all pleasantries.
Tried to be brave by asking the next day if he fancied meeting up the following week (I had a busy few days but I said let me know if you're free some time after that)
He said that'd be great, he was working extra that week so he'd tell me asap. (Neither of us work weekends and no children etc)
I left it there, waited several days for him to get back to me, nothing.
Sent a casual text asking how his work was going. Met with a polite reply that took him 24h to reply to, zero mention of meeting up again. Never took that long before.

It's clear he's not interested, is it. This is his way of brushing me off.

OP posts:
Rainbowpop · 02/04/2024 20:37

I totally understand people being busy, but if he wanted to he'd have suggested a weekend or an alternative date just to let me know he was still interested.

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StarbucksQueen1 · 02/04/2024 20:38

I think it’s clear he isn’t interested. Let him come to you now and if he doesn’t, that’s your answer!

Ponoka7 · 02/04/2024 20:40

Sounds as though he's dating other people. If you don't want something casual, I'd let this one go.

Axx · 02/04/2024 20:48

Sorry but sounds like it.

Restinggoddess · 02/04/2024 20:56

Don’t let him dangle you - if he is seeing other people and is keeping you on a hook that could explain his behaviour
Either way he does not sound like a potential partner - he’s not interested- sorry

mamacorn1 · 02/04/2024 20:58

I had the best date of my life with a guy who never called after. Who knows what is going on in their lives at the times these things happen. I always said “right guy, wrong time” to that one and I moved on.
it was a great evening though!

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