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That no one notices anything anymore, even danger?

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Jeannie88 · 29/03/2024 19:06

Just a question, is anyone else concerned about how so many people are absorbed on their phones they don't take in their surroundings AT ALL? So many situations, walking across the road not noticing cars turning, bumping into others, cyclists with ear buds in, shoppers stood in doorways texting, talking loudly on speaker phone or face timing in public places, shops/hospitals etc. I'm a careful driver, mostly, and the number of times I could've driven someone just stepping out into the road, bumped into others if I hadn't been aware and made the effort to move, which they didn't even notice, drivers clearly texting and missing light signals. Also a huge worry is having phone out and having absolutely no awareness of being a target for robbery or worse. It's important to have an awareness of what's going on around you, something I've been brought up to do.

I'm delighted we have have mobile phones, huge bonus and couldn't be without it now, but will wait to reply to a message when it's safe and polite to do so, not jump and react at every notification!

It's become obsessive, the need to respond immediately, surely waiting a few minutes til the road has been crossed, pull up at the side of the road, look around and take in the moment?

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needsomewarmsunshine · 30/03/2024 21:42

I was visiting a friend the other week and tried several times to engage her 4 year old in playing with his toys that were in the room, but he just wanted to watch stuff on her phone! He wouldn't talk as such but gawp at the phone. She thought it was funny and said that he was like his dad, he was always glued to his phone too.

PassingStranger · 30/03/2024 23:02

It's awful.
People are so obsessed with their phones they nearly walk into you.

Just stop and sit down or stand to the side etc if you want to use the phone. Stop putting other people in danger.

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