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Andrewofggg · 25/03/2024 20:48

I tried to post something like this a few days ago but it fouled up.

I was on MN about 2014 to 2018. At some point, I think 2016, I added a post "confessing" or rather boasting about something I claimed to have done in my teens - an act of cruelty to a dog but please don't go looking for it. It was absolutely not true and to this day I don't know why I did it. I've never harmed an animal and I never would.

When I found how much upset my presence was still causing I left.

At that time I was a spry sexagenarian, working and married. I am now less spry, early seventies, retired and a widower. And I miss MN - mainly Mornington Crescent but much else too. My opinions have not changed - pro-choice, anti-Trump, and in favour of single-sex spaces remaining that way, to name but a few.

If I am not welcome please say so and I will disappear again.

So: can I come in?

OP posts:
fost · 25/03/2024 20:50

If you miss the place so much, stop looking for drama, change your name and come back and post like a normal person with no mention of your past.

CatamaranViper · 25/03/2024 20:51

Eh? Why not just name change without making a weird grand return?

Kangarude · 25/03/2024 20:51

I remember that post!
Why don’t you just name change?

OwlCityisthemostunderrated · 25/03/2024 20:52

fost · 25/03/2024 20:50

If you miss the place so much, stop looking for drama, change your name and come back and post like a normal person with no mention of your past.

This. You don’t need permission. Just pick a username and post.

Are you looking for absolution?

Howarth · 25/03/2024 20:53

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We are taking this down as it is not in the spirit of the site.

WarshipRocinante · 25/03/2024 20:53

What? It’s an anonymous forum. Just get a new username and post on whatever threads you want to. Kindly, no one actually cares all that much about individual posters.

CarrotCake01 · 25/03/2024 20:53

... this is a bit strange

Andrewofggg · 25/03/2024 20:54

No. I just don't want someone saying later that I should never have come sneaky. back and that name changing was

OP posts:
CatamaranViper · 25/03/2024 20:54

It's like the opposite of when posters announce their departure.

OP, do you want us to roll out the red carpet and hold the door open?

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 25/03/2024 20:54

How would they know?

Andrewofggg · 25/03/2024 20:54

All right, Howarth, I'm off. Thanks all.

OP posts:
CatamaranViper · 25/03/2024 20:54

Andrewofggg · 25/03/2024 20:54

No. I just don't want someone saying later that I should never have come sneaky. back and that name changing was

How would they know?

JayAlfredPrufrock · 25/03/2024 20:55

I too remember that.

Weirdo.

CatamaranViper · 25/03/2024 20:55

Kangarude · 25/03/2024 20:51

I remember that post!
Why don’t you just name change?

Ooooo I want to see the thread!

OwlCityisthemostunderrated · 25/03/2024 20:55

This is … odd

Axx · 25/03/2024 20:56

Wotcha. Been a long time. I name change weekly now after the SWAT team shizz but I remember you and your post.

Just NC if it bothers you, or just don't mention the dog. If you hadn't bought it up I wouldn't have remembered just from seeing your name.

I doubt anyone has their old names anymore. No one with an inch of savvy anyways

MyLadyTheKingsMother · 25/03/2024 20:57

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MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 25/03/2024 20:57

It's like a reverse flounce

PonyPatter44 · 25/03/2024 21:00

Noone gives a tinkers cuss about posters who left EIGHT YEARS ago. Noone. At all. What an odd thread this is.

Axx · 25/03/2024 21:01

Andrewofggg · 25/03/2024 20:54

All right, Howarth, I'm off. Thanks all.

They're joking.

Lighten up. It's not that deep.

ScottBakula · 25/03/2024 21:05

If everyone that regretted posting something on here didn't come back I reckon mn would drop about a quarter of its users!

hollyandivyknickers · 25/03/2024 21:06

Omg I didn’t read the orginal post but have read several times of people referencing it as terrible behaviour.

probably best to name change and come back not mentioning any pets

StarbucksQueen1 · 25/03/2024 21:09

Andrewofggg · 25/03/2024 20:48

I tried to post something like this a few days ago but it fouled up.

I was on MN about 2014 to 2018. At some point, I think 2016, I added a post "confessing" or rather boasting about something I claimed to have done in my teens - an act of cruelty to a dog but please don't go looking for it. It was absolutely not true and to this day I don't know why I did it. I've never harmed an animal and I never would.

When I found how much upset my presence was still causing I left.

At that time I was a spry sexagenarian, working and married. I am now less spry, early seventies, retired and a widower. And I miss MN - mainly Mornington Crescent but much else too. My opinions have not changed - pro-choice, anti-Trump, and in favour of single-sex spaces remaining that way, to name but a few.

If I am not welcome please say so and I will disappear again.

So: can I come in?

In bringing it up you’ve just reminded people about what a sick thing you did. Why tell people? Just come back anonymously.

HebeMumsnet · 25/03/2024 21:11

Evening, everyone. We're not sure what the point is of this thread or indeed whether it's genuine. We're going to close the thread to new posts now while we have a look behind the scenes.

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