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Asked to move at the gym

336 replies

CatamaranViper · 22/03/2024 20:16

Firstly, the way our gym is laid out, you walk in and all the cardio equipment is either side of you, facing the walls. The equipment is all in pairs so it goes two treadmills, two rowing machines, two cross trainers, two bikes, two treadmills etc on each side.
When I came in, all CTs were free so I hopped on one. I usually do a 40 min program which is customised on my profile. All the cardio equipment has a big screen and you can watch netflix etc if you want. I usually do watch something.

So I was on the CT with my headphones in, facing the wall and about 10 mins into my workout. A lady taps me on the shoulder which made me jump and asks me to move machine. I gestured to the one next to me (I was a bit out of breath) and told her that it was free. She then told me that her and her friend like to do it side by side so I'd need to move for them. I was only 10 mins into my workout and I was quite settled where I was and she was rude. I said no, I'll be 30 mins or so, you can use it then.

One of the other pairs of CTs had a bloke on one so there weren't any two free together, but plenty other equipment was available and in pairs.

She demanded I move again and I just put my headphones back in. A few mins later a staff member comes over and asks how long I'll be. The screens shows I have about 25 mins left now, he sees this and off he goes. Next thing I hear a bang and one of the ladies has stormed out the gym. The other one is glaring at me and saying something I can't hear.

I mean, I could have moved to another CT but i always find it difficult if I stop and start again on those machines and there were other free CTs, just not two together. I don't think I did anything wrong but thought I'd ask on here. So WIBU to stay on my machine?

OP posts:
ReluctantSwimMum · 22/03/2024 20:18

You were right. Not unreasonable at all. Very odd behaviour by that person.

Elephantswillnever · 22/03/2024 20:18

I don't think so it's unfortunate they couldn't work out together but I wouldn't of moved either.

EmilyTjP · 22/03/2024 20:19

YANBU. You were there first. Tough luck that they can’t go on together.

Loulovescake · 22/03/2024 20:19

You were not unreasonable! It's not a seat where you can do a quick swap, getting off and on would totally break your flow.

PeloMom · 22/03/2024 20:20

You did nothing wrong. If they wanted to work out together they should have been prepared to wait for 2 machines to free up

napody · 22/03/2024 20:20

Were they (and the staff member) hassling the bloke as well, or just you?

DefenestratingZebra · 22/03/2024 20:21

Did at any point anyone ask the man on the other CT to move?

giveituplucy12 · 22/03/2024 20:21

napody · 22/03/2024 20:20

Were they (and the staff member) hassling the bloke as well, or just you?

Excellent point

MolkosTeenageAngst · 22/03/2024 20:22

Not unreasonable at all. Interesting they approached you and not the bloke to move.

NCForQuestions · 22/03/2024 20:22

YANBU. Shit like this is why I'm no longer a member of a gym. People are so entitled.

Fuck. Off.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 22/03/2024 20:22

I wouldn’t have moved either. If it was a treadmill it would totally mess up my run time and on that basis I wouldn’t move at all. She sounds batshit

BreakfastAtMimis · 22/03/2024 20:22

I wouldn't have moved either. Adults wanting to be next to each other at the gym is just pathetic.

LuciaSoto · 22/03/2024 20:22

not unreasonable, but I would also been really annoyed with the gym staff member, they shouldn’t have even come up and asked you.

CatamaranViper · 22/03/2024 20:23

napody · 22/03/2024 20:20

Were they (and the staff member) hassling the bloke as well, or just you?

I don't actually know tbh as I was focussed on what I was doing and he was behind me. So maybe.

OP posts:
Trickabrick · 22/03/2024 20:23

MolkosTeenageAngst · 22/03/2024 20:22

Not unreasonable at all. Interesting they approached you and not the bloke to move.

Exactly my thought, well done OP for sticking to your guns!

CormorantStrikesBack · 22/03/2024 20:24

They were rude. I wouldn’t have moved either. Maybe they don’t understand the concept of a pre set program thing and just couldn’t understand why you couldn’t move to a different one.

AffIt · 22/03/2024 20:24

Absolutely fucking not.

I'd also have quite a full and frank conversation with the manager about why the staff member saw fit to ask me how long I'd be.

CatamaranViper · 22/03/2024 20:25

LuciaSoto · 22/03/2024 20:22

not unreasonable, but I would also been really annoyed with the gym staff member, they shouldn’t have even come up and asked you.

I presume they told him I was hogging the machine. The staff are usually really good at asking people to free up equipment if they're hogging it.

The screen has a bar on it which shows how far into the workout you are so I presume he could see id only been on for 15 mins or so when he looked to see how long I had left.

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SameSameButDeliverance · 22/03/2024 20:25

I’d have laughed in their stupid face.

Actual Jog On!

Sandpitnotmoshpit · 22/03/2024 20:25

They are ridiculous. And I'd also complain to the manager that you were bothered at all by the staff member.

toomanyy · 22/03/2024 20:26

I was afraid you were going to say you moved!

So glad you didn’t!

Entitled twats.

HermioneWeasley · 22/03/2024 20:26

They were outrageously entitled and I’d complain about the staff member interrupting you

Greengagesnfennel · 22/03/2024 20:26

Yanbu!

WrylyAmused · 22/03/2024 20:27

You did nothing wrong. They were entitled.

Women in general need to stop even doubting or questioning themselves in these circumstances - standard response to this kind of shit is basically (in sentiment, not actual words unless they're particularly obnoxious):
"no, you are not worth more than me, kindly fuck off".

Mmhmmn · 22/03/2024 20:27

You were absolutely righT to stay where you were.
Why the fuck should you move just for their convenience? How bloody entitled they are, really shocking.

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