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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

But what about the blokes?

14 replies

TheAverageJoanne · 09/03/2024 07:46

This posted on Facebook by a chap at work. Joking aside, how come they don't realise it's a similar argument to people talking about reverse racism? Or is that an extreme reaction on my part? That's what he told me.

But what about the blokes?
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sparepantsandtoothbrush · 09/03/2024 07:47

International men's day is in November

Jamazon1 · 09/03/2024 07:48

He’s an idiot.

Cazpar · 09/03/2024 07:48

Just tell him it's Nov 19 and ask what he has planned for it.

FOJN · 09/03/2024 07:48

They care so much they haven't bothered to look into it.

IMD November 19th

JubileeJumps · 09/03/2024 07:48

It’s in November. If a man I knew posted that on Facebook I’d block him. But then I don’t have Facebook because it’s for twa*s like that.

Mrspatmoresspoon · 09/03/2024 07:53

Put as he has just demonstrated the patriarchy is alive and well not sure he needs his own day (It’s 19th Nov though)

BlueBrush · 09/03/2024 07:59

I'm just going to pop a link here to this excellent article about "whataboutery", which I have successfully used in such a situation.
https://whatwouldjesssay.substack.com/p/stop-asking-me-what-about-men

Stop asking me ‘what about men?’

Just stop.

https://whatwouldjesssay.substack.com/p/stop-asking-me-what-about-men

TheAverageJoanne · 09/03/2024 08:03

I did tell him about November and he conceded he knows about Movember but he's still made himself look like an arse.

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GrumpyPanda · 09/03/2024 08:07

Never mind Nov 19, tell him it's Men's Day 364 days of the year.

TinyYellow · 09/03/2024 08:11

‘Reverse racism’ is still racism, it’s still nasty and it can still be hurtful. I don’t think it’s comparable.

nancyastor · 09/03/2024 08:15

Saw your post having just seen this meme 👌

But what about the blokes?
AnImaginaryCat · 09/03/2024 08:24

Did you respond to him? Presume you did seeing he told you it was an extreme reaction.

As will all "what about international men's day" reactions it's nothing to do with concern about that but his dislike of focus on women. If he cared he'd know.

Next year we will rename Women's Day "What About Men's Day" then men can have two days and women none. That should make him happy.

moonjump · 09/03/2024 08:34

Tell him he can now just identify as a woman and be celebrated along with us old fashioned real women.

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