I don’t often attend funerals. Last one was in 2018 I think.
Old school friend’s mum’s funeral today. For several reasons it will be a casual celebration of life at the crematorium, not a formal church affair. No dress code (have asked). Would it be disrespectful to wear smart black jeans rather than formal trousers? I just feel more comfortable in them and hope to provide some support for my friend and say goodbye to a woman that was like a second mum in my teens. She was never one for formality and the house was a lovely jumble of chaos. I don’t feel she would want or expect formality but just checking the Mumsnet hive mind.