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Struggling - He moved to the other side of the world : (

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YourNewCat · 27/02/2024 01:09

Someone I care and have feelings for has moved to the other side of the world and I’m really struggling, I miss him so much! I miss seeing him most days, I miss his hugs, his support in challenging times - it’s so hard. It’s ridiculous that I feel like this, I’m not a naive teenager! It’s been a couple of months now. How can I get over this? My heart hurts and I feel so low most days.

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MissConductUS · 27/02/2024 01:11

What was the nature of your relationship with him?

brokennottorn · 27/02/2024 01:12

Im so sorry. It’s not clear if this was a current boyfriebd, an ex boyfriend, or just a friend, but it’s clearly hurting you. I could say “keep busy” but that won’t necessarily feel helpful. I’m sorry for your pain. Come have a squishy hug and a shoulder to cry on.

YourNewCat · 27/02/2024 01:49

A friend, although possible hidden feelings for each other : (

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YourNewCat · 27/02/2024 01:49

brokennottorn · 27/02/2024 01:12

Im so sorry. It’s not clear if this was a current boyfriebd, an ex boyfriend, or just a friend, but it’s clearly hurting you. I could say “keep busy” but that won’t necessarily feel helpful. I’m sorry for your pain. Come have a squishy hug and a shoulder to cry on.

Thank u!

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brokennottorn · 27/02/2024 01:56

You must be missing him so much. Stay busy. Find nice things. Surround yourself with love. He might come back. Things can happen against the odds.

shreknjumps · 27/02/2024 02:09

I think you should accept this for the one sided crush it was and move on. You'll do yourself no favours pining

YourNewCat · 27/02/2024 02:22

shreknjumps · 27/02/2024 02:09

I think you should accept this for the one sided crush it was and move on. You'll do yourself no favours pining

I think he maybe had some feelings for me too, but it just wasn’t meant to be. I also just really miss his friendship and having him there for me/being there for him

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