I called him out and he’s flipped

[WhyWhyY]

This evening I made plans to do something on my own. like you’ve all encouraged me to.

He’s been out with friends and I asked him to come home after he watched the match (we’re Irish)

1.5hrs later and he wasn’t home and it was fast approaching make or break time (one friend has an hour drive!) so I drove to the pub and he was sat with a fresh Guineas happy as Larry.

i asked
him to come
home right away to have the kids so I could leave and he’s now come home and freaked on me, walked out and slammed the door on me telling me to leave.

this really isn’t an AIBU post but just an update for those of you here following my story. I guess I have all the answers I need now.

thanks for the support. I know what I need to do

Why are you with him if he can't be trusted to take a turn?

You're not his mother - you're his partner and he should respect that.

What a childish w*nker of a man.

Can you take his advice and leave? Sounds like it would be a good move if you can. Brace yourself for all the gaslighting and bullshit when you do though.

You packing the kids and leaving right?

Or locking the door after him.

You probably need to look on my previous threads I’ve started to get context I guess

maybe not

its his house and I’ve got nowhere to go but I am looking at rentals and hoping I can find somewhere.

Again he’s made me feel like
im out of order for asking! That I’ve embarrassed him

I’ve not seen your previous thread but it’s clear you should pack up and leave (unless it’s your house). He has no respect for you. You deserve better.