Had meeting with boss to discuss change of circumstances which prevented me from taking on extra work I volunteered for. They wanted to know why. Said I needed to take dd to appointments. I felt I was pressured to disclose very personal information : what are the appointments for, what is the issue with dd etc. Ended up telling them that appointments were for counselling. Then they wanted specifics I tried to say it was private but they wanted to know. Then they focused on my mental health and I felt very uncomfortable with these questions. Can an employer ask these questions. I don't feel my mental health affects my work, I am always prepared and on time for work. I'm worried that this information can be used against me as they have seem my vulnerability. Am I reading too much into this. Aibu that this is not normal for a boss to do?