Fireplace as focal point, not TV
Skylights (ideally opening)
Open plan kitchen/living/dining with big doors to the garden … appreciate it’s a marmite choice but I love it (with separate utility & sitting room ideally)
Comfortable furniture - no sharp edges, skinny spindly legs or hard sofas
Brushed/satin/matt, not shiny
Natural materials - stone, leather, wool, wood.
Muted, calming colours. I like bright colours but not to live with a room full of them, day in day out.