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25 replies

Changingthelightbulb · 10/02/2024 10:07

I know there is many of these videos floating around the internet.
But seriously? How do these guys even get to thinking and believing this crap.

For those that do not wish to click the link. This guy is advising other guys about why we treat them bad and what to expect.

The worry is that our kids have access to this rubbish.

Why The Average Married Man Is Miserable!

I Explain why women usually end up being very disrespectful to the man that marries her.

https://youtu.be/N8fZotPp4yY?si=eE8-UNgzPwM70tic

OP posts:
NotTooOldPaul · 10/02/2024 10:12

I'm a man, I am married, I am very happy,
I am far happier with my wife than I could ever be without her.

Acatdance · 10/02/2024 10:18

Sounds like typical incel propaganda. Men like this egg each other on to cover up their own inadequacies. As the married male pp illustrates, men with healthy attitudes don't give this kind of thing any headspace.

Mothership4two · 10/02/2024 10:20

I haven't clicked to have a look. But what a sad and bitter outlook to have. I have seen a few critiques of this kind of video. They discuss "women" like they are a different species or robots wiith certain buttons to push. If these commentators were part of my family, I would be so disappointed in them.

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 10:21

What on earth is he on about. A woman should be grateful a man wanted to marry her ? A married man has low sexual currency or whatever he said. Blimey.

Mind you, I made a comment recently about my SIL cooking when she got home from work, whilst making the DCs lunches for the next day. Even though my brother had been home all day. They laughed and said "yea. Maybe that's why no one wants to marry you". Shock

Luckydog7 · 10/02/2024 10:29

Married men on average live longer then non married men.

Married women on average live shorter lives then single women.

Who is gaining more from this arrangement.

jeaux90 · 10/02/2024 10:37

These incel shithawks should not be clicked on.

I did find the documentary on these aching ponghole of men kind of fascinating though. The entitlement of them was shocking.

The Chairman of the global software company I work for stood on stage at the conference the other week and said that 50% of our recruitment last year were women and that it's the way it should be, companies should reflect society.

These men are going to be left very very far behind.

HappiestSleeping · 10/02/2024 10:38

NotTooOldPaul · 10/02/2024 10:12

I'm a man, I am married, I am very happy,
I am far happier with my wife than I could ever be without her.

Same here. Glad it isn't just me. 👍

LoveSandbanks · 10/02/2024 10:40

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 10:21

What on earth is he on about. A woman should be grateful a man wanted to marry her ? A married man has low sexual currency or whatever he said. Blimey.

Mind you, I made a comment recently about my SIL cooking when she got home from work, whilst making the DCs lunches for the next day. Even though my brother had been home all day. They laughed and said "yea. Maybe that's why no one wants to marry you". Shock

Wow, your sil is a rude bitch. Numerous studies have shown that single women are happier than married women

Maybe that’s why women punish men for marrying them 🤣🤣🤣

Justifiedcheese · 10/02/2024 10:40

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 10:21

What on earth is he on about. A woman should be grateful a man wanted to marry her ? A married man has low sexual currency or whatever he said. Blimey.

Mind you, I made a comment recently about my SIL cooking when she got home from work, whilst making the DCs lunches for the next day. Even though my brother had been home all day. They laughed and said "yea. Maybe that's why no one wants to marry you". Shock

Hope you knocked that on the head, HARD. I wouldn't accept sexist bs from my children.

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 10:55

Justifiedcheese · 10/02/2024 10:40

Hope you knocked that on the head, HARD. I wouldn't accept sexist bs from my children.

Luckily my children don't make sexist comments! Actually my DS is as likely to pull someone up for it as I am.

@LoveSandbanks i laughed and told her that if a man expected me to wait on him hand, foot and finger then I wouldn't want to marry him!

thebabessavedme · 10/02/2024 11:28

Well he's not getting any is he? Grin pillock

LauderSyme · 10/02/2024 11:30

Yes it's concerning that kids can see and hear this stuff. Sexist attitudes amongst boys and men is awfully rife.

Anniegetyourgun · 10/02/2024 11:37

So glad I did the father of my children the inestimable favour of divorcing him. He's free now. More to the point, so am I.

Poachedeggavocado · 10/02/2024 11:48

It's such a shame that the internet can be used to further human knowledge and global interaction in an unprecedented way and this is what some sad incels focus on. I try to instill a clear sense of healthy views about respecting women in my DS but I do worry about these aggressive views being bandied about.

HeadingBackHome · 10/02/2024 11:48

I'm a man, I am married, I am very happy, I am far happier with my wife than I could ever be without her.

Yet you were one of the men trying to chat to other women on the sex chat thread over on the sex topic last year, then when it was deleted, you joined the mumsnet reddit lot and were looking for women to chat to over there. One of your comments was ‘I may take a while to respond to PMs if my wife is around’. 🧐

DinaofCloud9 · 10/02/2024 11:55

HeadingBackHome · 10/02/2024 11:48

I'm a man, I am married, I am very happy, I am far happier with my wife than I could ever be without her.

Yet you were one of the men trying to chat to other women on the sex chat thread over on the sex topic last year, then when it was deleted, you joined the mumsnet reddit lot and were looking for women to chat to over there. One of your comments was ‘I may take a while to respond to PMs if my wife is around’. 🧐

I thought the same thing.

Trying to come across as a "nice guy" I would imagine.

LostInPoetry · 10/02/2024 12:01

Yet you were one of the men trying to chat to other women on the sex chat thread over on the sex topic last year, then when it was deleted, you joined the mumsnet reddit lot and were looking for women to chat to over there. One of your comments was ‘I may take a while to respond to PMs if my wife is around’. 🧐

Oh dear! I remember him too. His poor wife. 😔

HazelCat · 10/02/2024 12:15

LostInPoetry · 10/02/2024 12:01

Yet you were one of the men trying to chat to other women on the sex chat thread over on the sex topic last year, then when it was deleted, you joined the mumsnet reddit lot and were looking for women to chat to over there. One of your comments was ‘I may take a while to respond to PMs if my wife is around’. 🧐

Oh dear! I remember him too. His poor wife. 😔

How very depressing and sleazy

TiredOfRepeatingMyself · 10/02/2024 12:19
  1. He goes by the name "Bachelor"
  2. He's not a Psychologist or expert of any kind.
  3. He's American and is taking about women in America.
  4. He's talking bollocks.
No need to take any notice of a clown like that.
Britpop123 · 10/02/2024 12:20

HeadingBackHome · 10/02/2024 11:48

I'm a man, I am married, I am very happy, I am far happier with my wife than I could ever be without her.

Yet you were one of the men trying to chat to other women on the sex chat thread over on the sex topic last year, then when it was deleted, you joined the mumsnet reddit lot and were looking for women to chat to over there. One of your comments was ‘I may take a while to respond to PMs if my wife is around’. 🧐

Busted!

Dweetfidilove · 10/02/2024 12:36

HeadingBackHome · 10/02/2024 11:48

I'm a man, I am married, I am very happy, I am far happier with my wife than I could ever be without her.

Yet you were one of the men trying to chat to other women on the sex chat thread over on the sex topic last year, then when it was deleted, you joined the mumsnet reddit lot and were looking for women to chat to over there. One of your comments was ‘I may take a while to respond to PMs if my wife is around’. 🧐

🫢🫢🫢

Sapphire387 · 10/02/2024 12:47

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 10:21

What on earth is he on about. A woman should be grateful a man wanted to marry her ? A married man has low sexual currency or whatever he said. Blimey.

Mind you, I made a comment recently about my SIL cooking when she got home from work, whilst making the DCs lunches for the next day. Even though my brother had been home all day. They laughed and said "yea. Maybe that's why no one wants to marry you". Shock

I'd rather be single than end up being a skivvy to a lazy husband.

Justifiedcheese · 10/02/2024 13:03

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 10:55

Luckily my children don't make sexist comments! Actually my DS is as likely to pull someone up for it as I am.

@LoveSandbanks i laughed and told her that if a man expected me to wait on him hand, foot and finger then I wouldn't want to marry him!

Good. When you said " they" said it after referring to making sarnies for DCs I assumed you meant DCs.
As for SIL, 'rod for her own back' springs to mind.

PaperDoIIs · 10/02/2024 13:06

It's easier for men to blame women , than look inward and accept they need to up their game and put the work in. It was ever thus.

Terfosaurus · 10/02/2024 13:17

Justifiedcheese · 10/02/2024 13:03

Good. When you said " they" said it after referring to making sarnies for DCs I assumed you meant DCs.
As for SIL, 'rod for her own back' springs to mind.

Ah right. No bad phrasing on my part! They meant SIL/brother.

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