My friend is always telling me what to do to the point I'm thinking of ending the friendship. The latest is, her husband who takes her to ecology parks and she thinks he's saving the planet, always telling me don't do this in your garden because you'll harm the wildlife has just informed me they've been to the beach and collected some "beautiful big rocks and pieces of driftwood" for their new water feature. I told her that is illegal and she said "don't be ridiculous it's only lying around on the beach". Anyone else be annoyed by this bearing in mind she's constantly on my case about how I should arrange my bloody bird feeders?