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To call the hospital

15 replies

Sundaysunshine22 · 21/01/2024 20:03

My friend is in hospital on one to one observations. She has a history of manic depression and was admitted before Christmas. Last week, she was found hanged and resuscitated successfully. She's been messaging me this evening telling me she has a razor blade hidden in her bra and is going to kill herself. I'm so concerned, I don't know whether to phone up the hospital and let them know. She'll know it's me but I'm so worried she can't keep herself safe.

OP posts:
captaincalamari12 · 21/01/2024 20:04

I know it's difficult, but you need to ring. You'll never forgive yourself if you don't.

lordloveadog · 21/01/2024 20:04

Of course you should

henrysugar12 · 21/01/2024 20:04

If it were me I would.

SingsongSu · 21/01/2024 20:05

Call them OP.

lordloveadog · 21/01/2024 20:05

Apart from anything, if she's telling you it's because she knows you'll have to do something.

Cas112 · 21/01/2024 20:06

Ring ASAP op

StrongandNorthern · 21/01/2024 20:06

Of course you must. She probably knows (hopes) you will.

Overthebow · 21/01/2024 20:06

You should ring op, she needs to be kept safe.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 21/01/2024 20:06

Of course you must!

Sirzy · 21/01/2024 20:06

To me it would be a complete no brainer. Phone them and let them know so they can help her

littlejellyfish · 21/01/2024 20:07

Ring them now

Tummytroubles22 · 21/01/2024 20:08

You must ring them, it’s also dangerous for the nurse who is one to one with them.

Carsarelife · 21/01/2024 20:09

Definitely call you cannot leave something like this to chance

FloofCloud · 21/01/2024 20:17

Absolutely, it's a cry for help- ask them to be cautious as you don't want to break confidence but they need to know x

WetBandits · 21/01/2024 20:19

Oh fuck me, what a horrible position to be in! I would absolutely ring, she might be cross with you but she will be alive. If she was my patient, I’d be so grateful to you for calling.

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