To not believe I have bpd

[Justagirl78]

I only really self harm or feel suicidal if something has gone wrong or if I think about something in the past that’s upset me. Is this really a mental illness

Do you have a diagnosis, and how was it given to you?

A lot of women in crisis are lumped with this label, when they don't have it. Self harm is only one criteria, and not all people with BPD self harm.