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To not tell best friend about her boyfriend

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twingeix · 19/01/2024 18:34

Went out with best friend and her boyfriend who she has been living with for a few years. She seems so happy with him. She is slightly depressed at the moment as suffers with seasonal depression and her boyfriend has been amazing with her apparently. She was admitted to a psychiatric ward after a bad break up a few years ago as she tried to commit suicide. Since going on meds and councelling she is much better in terms of mental health except for seasonal depression.
In the bar her boyfriend leaned over and very drunk way whispered in my ear 'your boobs look amazing in that dress' and then moved over to my friend and carried on chatting as if nothing had happened. I couldn't believe it had happened and extremely awkward. I didn't want to say anything incase it caused a drunken argument and upset her mental health and I don't know what to do as it was a few weeks ago now. They seem so happy togeyher. They were extremely drunk that night.

OP posts:
ohdamnitjanet · 19/01/2024 18:54

Say absolutely nothing. If he does it again tell him to fuck off.

MatterofTime24 · 19/01/2024 18:55

Agree, leave it.

itsmylife7 · 19/01/2024 18:55

ohdamnitjanet · 19/01/2024 18:54

Say absolutely nothing. If he does it again tell him to fuck off.

Perfect response to do OP

DidntReallyMeanIt · 19/01/2024 18:58

If this was a few weeks ago, you missed your chance.

As a PP said, tell him to fuck off if there's a next time.

crostini · 19/01/2024 19:15

Yeah i think cos you were all very drunk, I'd leave it.
But if he does similar again, especially if sober, then yes bring it up.

MailMe1 · 19/01/2024 19:18

Your friend will likely dump you. Not him. In my experience I saw my friend’s boyfriend in a club hitting on a friend I was with (he wasn’t to know I was there that evening or the girl that he was hitting on was my friend). I told my friend and she believed him.

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