We have a community cafe that I have made a good friend and the rest are just a pleasant greeting but nothing else. To be honest they all talk about negative stuff just draining and nothing uplifting so I really can’t be bothered associating with them for 2 hours eating dinner. There’s always a disaster in someone life when you talk to them. My friend has suggested we go. She get on with them, I don’t want to go as don’t want to socialise with them. What reason can I give her, don’t want to upset my friend feelings.