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The solo and the choir concert

20 replies

Anon9898 · 18/10/2023 21:33

I am in a choir and we have a concert in Saturday. I love singing and I know i am good at it (not big headed just been told by lots of people including professionals).

At the concert I am the only person who is singing a solo piece out of the two choirs preforming. Should I still do the preformance or wait until other people offer next time if there is one

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LostAtTheCrossRoad · 18/10/2023 21:34

What are you talking about? You've been given the solo, the running order is set. Stop humble bragging and deliver what you've been asked/told to do.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 18/10/2023 21:35

I don't understand this question

Yorkshiretearascal · 18/10/2023 21:36

Maybe I'm missing something but why wouldn't you do the performance if you've been asked to sing a solo? Go for it and enjoy it! Someone else might get asked next time.

Slobberchops1 · 18/10/2023 21:37

This is so stupid

Anon9898 · 18/10/2023 21:38

I didnt ask I volunteered

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curtaintwitcher78 · 18/10/2023 21:41

What the hell are you asking? What do you mean?

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 18/10/2023 21:42

You just wanted to brag about your solo really don't you?

It's set now. Just do it

Overthebow · 18/10/2023 21:42

I’m not sure why you’d turn it down if you were asked to do it?

JanglyBeads · 18/10/2023 21:43

Did they ask for volunteered?
Are you doing a whole solo piece or just part of a larger piece?
Is it usual for there to be solos at your choir's concerts?

Sweetwindinmyhead · 18/10/2023 21:43

The most pointless post ever!

PerspiringElizabeth · 18/10/2023 21:44

What you on about? You’re going to bail and let the whole rest of the choir down as there will then be no soloist? Why wouldn’t you sing if you love it so much? More info needed!

AfterWeights · 18/10/2023 21:45

Did they ask for volunteers?

Its unusual to throw your hat into the ring unless they explicitly ask for volunteers.

Meniscus · 18/10/2023 21:46

You need to do this one. Next time wait to be asked.

You do sound quite odd. Why would you pull out at the last minute for something you’ve agreed to do? Do you want to be begged or something?

MigraineOfSalt · 18/10/2023 21:46

Strange post! Please explain. You volunteered for a solo and got it. What’s the issue?!

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 18/10/2023 21:47

Is your question that you have pushed yourself forward and should you wait to be asked next time ?

Yes if so

DameMargaretofChalfont · 18/10/2023 21:48

OP - please read back your original post.

It makes no sense!!
What exactly are you asking?

Anon9898 · 18/10/2023 21:48

They asked for people to sing solo. I asked if I could put my name forward and I showed him the song I would like to sing. He was more then happy to let me have a spot in the concert

It has since transpired that no one else from our choir or the other choir involved in the concert has asked to do a solo.

I just dont want it to seem that I want to be the centre of attention

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3dogsandarabbit · 18/10/2023 21:56

They asked for people to sing solo. You volunteered which they were happy with so I don't see what the problem is.

Daffidale · 18/10/2023 21:59

They asked for volunteers. You volunteered . They accepted. Definitely do it.

Maybe seeing you do it will encourage others next time

Echobelly · 18/10/2023 22:00

OK, so this is a concert of choral pieces and you are singing a song of your choice, without choir and it sounds like you feel a bit self conscious now that it turns out your the only solo performance in the concert?

Look, if you want to sing the solo, sing it. If you're worried people will think you're a terrible stage-hogger doing a solo, maybe say to whoever's running the concert that you didn't realise you'd be the only soloist and maybe could you save it for another concert when there's more solo spots. Personally I don't think you should worry what people think, go ahead and do it.

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