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Erotica ebooks. Should I bring this up to ex?

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cadburyegg · 04/10/2023 14:19

Ex and I share 2 boys, ages 8 and 5.

DS8 has an Amazon fire tablet that his dad bought him. Anyone who is familiar with these knows that an adult has to log in using a pin number to change things like screen time limits and to add Wi-Fi networks.

We were at my mums house last week and I had to log in using the pin to connect it to Wi-Fi. Because ex bought the tablet it's connected to his account, so you get a brief "overview" of his kindle library, apps etc when you switch to his account.

I've never paid any attention to this but this time when I logged in, I noticed in the library were various erotica books, one called "lesbian sex bundle", and a few others.

Technically DS8 shouldn't be able to see this because it's behind the pin that he doesn't know, but I can't help but feel uncomfortable that this library history is shown on there. I'm wondering if I can switch it so it's just my account? (My kindle history is very boring.) Should I bring this up with ex (and embarrass him no end)?

Genuinely not sure how to handle this?

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SleepingStandingUp · 04/10/2023 14:20

If there's absolutely no way DS can see this, i'd leave it.

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