Aibu to not want to meet dd13’s dad

[Wowzer67]

To discuss why she doesn’t want to go and sleep round. I feel we have said it all he knows and it just fills me with anxiety to the point I feel sick. He seems to want an explanation from dd herself. I have explained to him but he just keeps projecting blame on me/her rather than thinking about the environment she is when she goes there!
part of me wants to say no the other thinks I should go for her x she has said she doesn’t want to and I don’t feel like I should push her anymore than she has been

If you've been through the reasons, that's enough.

Don't let him try and wear you down.

If he took you to court then they would say that it's completely up to your dd because of her age. There is no point meeting him if he won't listen and consider what you've told him. If he disagrees with DD's views or wants to add some context about things not being how she perceives them then he can always email or text her.