Asking as my eldest daughter isoff to Uni in Ireland. We're Irish.we're separated.
Dad refusing to contribute a single cent.
Contributes e50
Per week per child now and again and says that if he does get money to contribute he is stopping maintenance.
I've always shielded my kids from his meanness, disinterest and uselessness as a man and father but is enough enough.
I've been advised that my 19 year old daughter should be told the truth.
Aibu to tell her the reality.
I will be funding her fees and accom myself.. approx e 10,000 .
All else falls to her which is fair I think. She has a great pt job at weekends.