To not want to be referred to as missy?

[AndJust]

By anyone but also by someone who’s the same age as me.

You're not being unreasonable but some context would probably add to the thread.

Or ‘love’. That one really winds me up!

I don’t blame you.

It was said by another female, in a jokey way I think. But I felt like saying fuck off.

Don't ever visit Sheffield😄

Yes it’s hard to imagine that being said in a way that wasn’t patronising.

DD gets Missy if there are higher than reasonable levels of sass

I get 'me duck', strangely don't mind it from another woman, but bristle when it is from a man.

This 😀 (and that includes you men)