Is 7.5 years between the eldest and youngest too much? It would then be 4.5 years between the middle child if we had a third.
i came from a family of 5 kids and oldest, I felt like I didn’t get much attention, I think my parents preferred babies to actual kids at times. I worry about giving my kids enough attention and if they will be emotionally supported (something I think was missing from my childhood)
I worry about days out and giving my kids opportunities I never had; theme parks, adventure, travel etc.
Yet I have an urge to have a 3rd child. I had a TMFR with a third a year ago which is also a worry as I think that would have a been a great age gap. Maybe it’s all meant to be? But we could ttc and I could have that feeling of completely my family. I feel a bit all over the place mentally!