Ed mother in law over stepping boundaries

[Anonymous6447727]

Recently my son has told me his gran has been asking him question about my life, who I'm with ect and today we bumped into her while out shopping and she straight out asked me son who is only 3, what's mummy boyfriend called, you must know his name tell me!
I told her this isn't acceptable but she doesn't see it as an issue?
Aibu or correct in setting the boundaries

Do you facilitate contact or doe she only see him via your ex?

She sees him on time he has with dad they take him one afternoon a week

His gran and grandad have one afternoon a week on dads time

I would tell her she need to stop. If she wants to know something she can ask you. Not a 3 year old child.

Yeah I have told her if she wants to know ask me but I don't need to let her in on every detail of my life, I think it maybe gets a bee in her nest as he's better with son than her own son but son only calls him by his name and nothing else