A friend cancelled plans during the week (which is fine these things happen) but did it a second time today, after she rearranged it. Both times it was that she had deadlines for work- which were known about in advance of any plans. Also to note- she made the plans herself and I offered if she was too busy to leave it. But she said she wanted to go ahead. During the week she cancelled our catch up in the evening, but suggested a daytime coffee instead.
Unfortunately, I already had plans for the day time as I had kept the evening free to meet her, so I couldn’t meet them. She rearranged for
tonight and I made the booking. I got a message this morning cancelling. She said ‘oh I considered a coffee instead but it’s raining.’ Full of apologies and that but I still feel a bit off about it. As I said cancellation obviously happens, but twice in a few days! AIBU to think it’s a bit inconsiderate?