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To think this is a weird way to refer to someone of this age?

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TinaTeaspoons · 14/06/2023 21:40

An old colleague of mine died at 38 years old.
I overheard someone say 'She wasn't much more than a baby.'
This person is about late fifties who said it.
Aibu to say that although it's tragic and a young age to die, she was hardly a child ?

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UnsolicitedOpinions · 14/06/2023 21:48

I think it’s odd that you’ve started a thread about it. Of course, it’s not accurate, no. However, if somebody a person knows has died aged 38, I don’t think you need to examine their vocabulary and post about it.

TheLostNights · 14/06/2023 21:49

I would understand if someone said thie about someone in their twenties but no, not thirties.

Catbumps · 14/06/2023 21:50

I think it’s odd that you’ve started a thread about it. Of course, it’s not accurate, no. However, if somebody a person knows has died aged 38, I don’t think you need to examine their vocabulary and post about it

this. What an odd post

Royalbloo · 14/06/2023 21:51

No it's weird but did they have kids? Some old people with children think anyone without them is a child.

Royalbloo · 14/06/2023 21:51

UnsolicitedOpinions · 14/06/2023 21:48

I think it’s odd that you’ve started a thread about it. Of course, it’s not accurate, no. However, if somebody a person knows has died aged 38, I don’t think you need to examine their vocabulary and post about it.

Also, this...

Mammyloveswine · 14/06/2023 21:52

What a nasty thread! 38 is incredibly young and tragic to die!

MollysBrolly · 14/06/2023 21:54

Same as William and Harry are constantly referred to as Boys, but are grown up and 40 and nearly 40

flagpie · 14/06/2023 21:57

She didn't mean it literally, she meant she was far too young to die. You must know that though?

Nicecow · 14/06/2023 21:58

UnsolicitedOpinions · 14/06/2023 21:48

I think it’s odd that you’ve started a thread about it. Of course, it’s not accurate, no. However, if somebody a person knows has died aged 38, I don’t think you need to examine their vocabulary and post about it.

This. Crass OP. Get the thread taken down.

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