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Is it the hot weather that is turning everyone into rude obnoxious idiots?

21 replies

Backtoreality1 · 13/06/2023 15:42

I work public facing, and we are getting some of the rudest and most unreasonable behaviour this week - far more than normal! Are everyones manners just disappearing because they are a little too warm? Its just ridiculous!

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Blackbyrd · 13/06/2023 15:51

Sorry you're having to deal with that OP. I think hot weather,like being drunk, brings out people's true nature sometimes. Which isn't always pleasant. Coupled with difficulty sleeping, allergies and the never ending bad news lately. Hopefully the weather will become cooler soon if only to encourage the putting away of revolting old men's feet in sandals and the endless tits on parade

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 15:51

Yes!

wildinthecountry · 13/06/2023 15:55

I do believe people have less patience in hot weather , the heat doesn't just affect mad dogs ..

ApplePippa · 13/06/2023 16:03

I was helping to run a toddler group this morning - waaay more tears and tantrums than usual. Lots of hot, bothered toddlers who had slept badly and been up since the crack of dawn, and lots of hot, tired parents and carers.

Betsybee88 · 13/06/2023 16:07

Yes, sleep quality is poor, people are hot and bothered.
I know I for one have far less patience.

maddiemookins16mum · 13/06/2023 16:09

It’s pretty much why we have the expression ‘hot and bothered’.

RicherThanYews · 13/06/2023 16:10

Yep, I experiencing the same thing op, especially on the road! I was at a junction waiting to turn left but traffic was going both ways so there was no time/space to join the flow and the car behind me was honking his horn and flipping me the bird 🙄

LaurieFairyCake · 13/06/2023 16:16

Yes of course

I slept REALLY badly last night and I'm still hot, knackered, fractious and fucked off

Basically you're ALL CUNTS today

Gettingbysomehow · 13/06/2023 16:17

No one is being obnoxious here because we've all melted.

Backtoreality1 · 13/06/2023 16:24

Thank you everyone - sorry to see its not just me, but I have also am not sleeping and knackered,but have to try and be 'nice'. Its testing me today for sure!

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queenatom · 13/06/2023 16:59

Quite possibly - I was very snippy with my husband and toddler this morning and I suspect the heat may have been to blame. Mood improved massively on arriving in the (air conditioned) office.

ALongHardWinter · 13/06/2023 17:42

Yes! IMO,hot weather really does seem to bring out the worst in a hell of a lot of people. I live in a low rise flat above some shops,and I've definitely noticed in the last week far more people arguing and shouting outside, people in cars pulling up to go in the shops with stereos blasting out music at ear-splitting volume,and people in shops just generally being more aggressive and queue jumping etc. Yet another reason I hate hot weather!

AceofPentacles · 13/06/2023 17:43

Yes some of my customers have been absolute COCKS this week

ALongHardWinter · 13/06/2023 17:44

Blackbyrd · 13/06/2023 15:51

Sorry you're having to deal with that OP. I think hot weather,like being drunk, brings out people's true nature sometimes. Which isn't always pleasant. Coupled with difficulty sleeping, allergies and the never ending bad news lately. Hopefully the weather will become cooler soon if only to encourage the putting away of revolting old men's feet in sandals and the endless tits on parade

Your last remark struck a chord with me! Yet another reason I hate the heat. I'm sick of all the bare flesh on show! Just put it away!

pussycatinfluffyslippers · 13/06/2023 17:49

No.
More people these days (post covid) have little filter and can be quite rude.
The hot weather is making it more obvious because of the ones that are normally polite becoming a little more grouchy IYSWIM.
I'm lucky if I get 5hrs sleep - hot weather and being 51 don't mix well. <growls> I need an ice cold 🚿 every hour I think.

pussycatinfluffyslippers · 13/06/2023 17:52

@ALongHardWinter Can I get my lower legs out tomorrow at Sainsburys or Morrisons? They've not seen the light of day for a few years now. Grin
My shorts are below the knee (Denim bermuda) so hopefully won't blind too many unsuspecting shoppers. Blush

johnnydeppsslipper · 13/06/2023 17:55

Not noticed from other people so far other than my tween who's been being a right stroppy hot bod so far. Confused

Bak to work tomorrow so we will see

Maverickess · 13/06/2023 17:59

Yup.
Also customer facing and somewhere that people get to relax (or that's the intention anyway!) Either in the heat or out of it if they prefer. So many seem hell bent on an argument rather than relaxing and enjoying themselves.

I'm hot and bothered too, and running around in the heat, and no matter how much you shout, belittle or make sarcastic comments, I can't change the weather or make you have a better nights sleep, so be a grown up and deal with your own emotions instead of taking them out on people you know can't give you the gob full you deserve!

Thanks OP - that feels better!

LodiDodi · 13/06/2023 18:07

So many people are absolutely vile, I'd honestly refuse them service if they were rude to me I wouldn't care.

ALongHardWinter · 13/06/2023 18:10

pussycatinfluffyslippers · 13/06/2023 17:52

@ALongHardWinter Can I get my lower legs out tomorrow at Sainsburys or Morrisons? They've not seen the light of day for a few years now. Grin
My shorts are below the knee (Denim bermuda) so hopefully won't blind too many unsuspecting shoppers. Blush

That's quite acceptable! 😂 I'm referring to all the bare-chested men strutting around the high street,and women wearing what basically amounts to a swimsuit walking around Tesco's!

endofagain · 13/06/2023 18:19

Why very fat men think it is acceptable to wander about in nothing but a pair of tiny shorts is beyond me. Please, at least put a T shirt or vest on. I don't want to be confronted with your sunburned beer belly while I am waiting to go in to the dentist.

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