to find this unfair?

[kayzisbroody]

We've been at my mums tonight and on the way home dh said he would change ds and get him ready for bed. When we got home he changed ds but moaned all the way throughout(sp) that it should've been the first thing I did when I got in. Now normally it would've been but dh said he would do it. Dh works most of the day and says he enjoys coming home and being able to change, feed etc ds.
At the moment we're ttc #2 and I'm OV(sorry if tmi) this Saturday coming and dh has just said "when I get out of the shower we'll you know what".
After earlier I just dont feel like it.

AIBU or would other people feel this way about having sex after being moaned at?

i find it very off putting, but then men always seem to expect us women to switch on like a light switch and be in the mood

SA "no, i don't know what?" "oh, you mean, you will be apologising for being an arse about having to do a nappy change?"

Hardly sets the right mood does it. Not really foreplay .......you have time before satday, so give him a damn good talking to and tell him you want some serious loving to make up for his attitude problem.
Good luck x
(YA100%NBU)

It is very off putting. I'm going to tell him he has to make it up to me!!