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To wonder why anyone wants to marry him?

24 replies

girlfriend44 · 17/05/2023 16:18

Levi Bellfield the vile creature that killed several women and left another one for dead, wants to get married.

How does anyone want to marry that thing?
He's on a life sentence anyway.
Hope its not allowed?
What kind of message is she sending out to the sisterhood by wanting to marry someone who detests women?

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gamerchick · 17/05/2023 16:20

I think most serial killers get a following by women. I don't get it either

TheShellBeach · 17/05/2023 16:38

All serial killers have a plethora of girls who write to them.
The Yorkshire Ripper had loads.
Some woman will marry Bellfield. The Home Office can't stop him from getting married.

Lwrenagain · 17/05/2023 16:39

You know how the game goes about your dream dinner party and you get to be in a room with like, Jesus, lady Di and John lennon or something?

I'd love to pick levi bellend just to punch him to death with my bare hands.
He's one of the worst scum ever to walk to earth and I'm not saying that lightly.

He is a rapist, paedophile, murdering psychopath who 100% should be kept in a cage with zero oxygen.

Not many murderers make me go full game of thrones, but this repugnant creature brings out my inner cerci.

Any woman who writes to him needs sectioning because its so abnormal. He'll never see the light of day, you're not helping rehabilitate it, just.. fuck off.

I've written to prisoners as I believe that loneliness is going to cause a repeat offence, so I'm all for wanting to be on the side that protects children by giving people who've harmed them so form of socialisation. My DP supports me, but doesn't think it'll do anything long term, but I remain hopeful I've perhaps helped somehow. But writing to someone who currently is allowing another prisoner to stay in prison for the crimes he clearly committed, fucking controlling evil bastard.

BlusteryLake · 17/05/2023 16:41

It's a certain type of woman who is drawn to repulsive men. They either like the risk, have convinced themselves the man isn't a murderer and has been wrongly convicted, or have cooked up all sorts of bizarre justification for his actions. They often have mental health and self-esteem issues.

SarahSmith2023 · 17/05/2023 16:42

@TheShellBeach how sure are you that they can't stop him getting married? Him getting married was all over the news last year &I thought thst he'd been turned down (by officials, not a woman)

I think all these women need help!

im assuming it has something to do with the men not really being available physically, but getting something out of 'being wanted'???

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 17/05/2023 16:46

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dottypotter · 17/05/2023 17:07

It shouldn't be allowed.

He should have received capital punishment. Waste of space.
The woman wants her head seeing too.

Scheanasgreytooth · 17/05/2023 17:14

It's totally incomprehensible to most of us, but I watched something about this recently and the way the lecturer explained it, it did make a kind of sense. Throughout history male and female killers get adoring fans and marriage proposals. There's a proper term for it but can't remember now. Part of it is the person not in prison wanting to be different to the victims, they are special and they feel if the killer were to be released, they wouldn't harm the person. Another side of the psychology is that they feel their love can 'save' and redeem and change the killer. There was a case in Australia I think where the male killer was released and within a few days had murdered the woman who'd fallen for him and married in prison. If I'm remembering rightly her sister or best friend did the same thing with a different killer, and on his release was also violently attacked by him, I think she may have survived.

BodegaSushi · 17/05/2023 17:21

girlfriend44 · 17/05/2023 16:18

Levi Bellfield the vile creature that killed several women and left another one for dead, wants to get married.

How does anyone want to marry that thing?
He's on a life sentence anyway.
Hope its not allowed?
What kind of message is she sending out to the sisterhood by wanting to marry someone who detests women?

Only someone who is sick in the head. Sad that it seems to be mostly women, obviously more men are guilty of these violent crimes, but even gay men like Jeffrey Dahmer received love letters from women.

I wonder if Myra Hindley and Rose West received lots of letters from men.

BlusteryLake · 17/05/2023 17:37

I wonder if Myra Hindley and Rose West received lots of letters from men

That's a very interesting question. There are so few female serial killers that there's probably not enough instances to comment collectively.

DejaVoodoo · 17/05/2023 17:41

Didn't Ted Bundy get married and father a child whilst in prison too?

It's so unfathomable to us normal people that anyone can find these pure evil shit bags attractive. I wonder what Bellfield's fiance's family and friends think of her decision.

whumpthereitis · 17/05/2023 17:43

BlusteryLake · 17/05/2023 17:37

I wonder if Myra Hindley and Rose West received lots of letters from men

That's a very interesting question. There are so few female serial killers that there's probably not enough instances to comment collectively.

Yes they both did/do. So does Joanne Dennehy.

DejaVoodoo · 17/05/2023 17:45

At least Ted Bundy was good looking, though, I meant to add. Bellfield is horrific in every possible way.

HowDoYouDoWhatYouDoToMeIWishIKnew · 17/05/2023 17:50

Someone I follow on tiktok reads the letter some murderers get, Chris Watts gets loads, they are all available online I think.

The things these women send are disgusting, I can't wrap my head around knowing someone murdered another in cold blood, and then writing to them because you feel sorry for them.

The whole thing is odd, and anyone who reaches out to a murderer needs some serious help.

ILikePizzas · 17/05/2023 18:00

Read Mumsnet. Violent men seem to have no problem finding a wife and having kids. I wonder why as well, but there we are.

Farmageddon · 17/05/2023 18:10

HowDoYouDoWhatYouDoToMeIWishIKnew · 17/05/2023 17:50

Someone I follow on tiktok reads the letter some murderers get, Chris Watts gets loads, they are all available online I think.

The things these women send are disgusting, I can't wrap my head around knowing someone murdered another in cold blood, and then writing to them because you feel sorry for them.

The whole thing is odd, and anyone who reaches out to a murderer needs some serious help.

Sadly this doesn't surprise me, I remember when this case happened loads of arseholes (mainly women!) online saying that his wife was controlling, and she was the evil one etc. basically blaming his wife for her own murder.

It was really awful.

TheShellBeach · 17/05/2023 18:11

dottypotter · 17/05/2023 17:07

It shouldn't be allowed.

He should have received capital punishment. Waste of space.
The woman wants her head seeing too.

That isn't possible as it's off the statute.
Anyway, I think life in prison is worse than being executed.

BodegaSushi · 17/05/2023 21:53

DejaVoodoo · 17/05/2023 17:45

At least Ted Bundy was good looking, though, I meant to add. Bellfield is horrific in every possible way.

Have you seen Richard Ramirez Confused

Had a mouth full of rotten teeth but the women were chasing him down

BodegaSushi · 17/05/2023 21:58

HowDoYouDoWhatYouDoToMeIWishIKnew · 17/05/2023 17:50

Someone I follow on tiktok reads the letter some murderers get, Chris Watts gets loads, they are all available online I think.

The things these women send are disgusting, I can't wrap my head around knowing someone murdered another in cold blood, and then writing to them because you feel sorry for them.

The whole thing is odd, and anyone who reaches out to a murderer needs some serious help.

Pls can you link it, sounds interesting

HowDoYouDoWhatYouDoToMeIWishIKnew · 17/05/2023 22:51

BodegaSushi · 17/05/2023 21:58

Pls can you link it, sounds interesting

Her name is themisspamelaj I'm not sure if she has a playlist of them, but if you scroll back a bit she has a whole series on letters women have sent to various murderers.

Be prepared to cringe and be angry at the same time.

NotMeSecretFormular · 17/05/2023 23:50

Because some people are absolutely batshit.

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