LL selling current house we are renting, tried to buy house but a year later paper work from sellers end not sorted so our mortgage fell through. Now looking at a shared ownership, have paid reservation fees, appointed conveyencer and going through mortgage process. Ongoing now for about a month, building society coming back every few days with things like, we can only offer 40% as you have a small debt, debt payed but apparently now only have affordability for 50% and not 55%, agreed that, then coming back with something else and so on. Alongside this house we are living in is now on the market so who knows when we will have to move. I've had enough, this had been ongoing for well over a year and I've come to breaking point. Work is suffering as my mind isn't focused, I get no down time as I'm trying to pack, declutter and sort out all the paper work, alongside overtime to make sure we have enough funds for when we move. I'm exhausted, stressed and just can not do it any more. AIBU to just say fuck it, pull out of the house and just rent somewhere else.