My ex left me in pregnancy. He seemed to have struggled with the pregnancy (unplanned but kids were absolutely in our future, as far as I was aware and had been talked about a LOT). We’d been together a while and around 3 months in just became awful to me. I left, told him to get in touch when he wanted. I heard nothing for the entirety of my pregnancy, nothing after the birth, then when dc turned 6 months he began contact, began paying money into my account, asking if I had got it, saying he wanted to see dc, telling me about gifts he had bought. I invited him to see dc and he went silent, so I’ve heard nothing more. I was initially happy about the contact for DC’s sake but the last couple of days after confiding in friends they have said he’s a monster to waltz back like that and then to
still not have seen his child. I now feel really uncomfortable about his suddenly change in attitude. Am I right to feel uneasy? Should I go with it? Feel so conflicted because I want to do the best for dc.