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To feel annoyed he went out

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Georgia71 · 11/04/2023 21:03

Just spent a weekend away with boyfriend. Day 1 he claimed to be feeling poorly and went back to bed and slept after breakfast, then day 2 after dinner he went to bed and slept straight through from about 8:30pm. We did do stuff in between but he was making a big thing of being such a trooper given how unwell he was feeling. Arrived home mid afternoon and he goes straight out to the pub for a good few hrs. The following day we had made plans together but he felt too unwell to get out of bed. Apparently too poorly to eat (despite £35 at deliveroo?!). Back to work fine the next day. I’m not someone who would ever tell someone they can’t go to the pub or whatever, but am I being unreasonable to feel a bit, I dunno- de-prioritised here?

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MissConductUS · 11/04/2023 21:04

Was he unwell the next day due to overdoing it at the pub?

Happygirl79 · 11/04/2023 21:04

He is taking the p...

Dartmoorcheffy · 11/04/2023 21:05

Do you live together? If not then dump him. If you do live together I'd seriously be questioning the relationship as that's the behaviour of someone who's no longer interested in it.

Georgia71 · 11/04/2023 21:06

He reckons he left the pub cos he wasn’t feeling well. But with the takeaway the next day is suspicious he was rough. We don’t live together

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