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Wwyd if you were living in New York with a work visa?

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lowbutlucky · 02/04/2023 22:32

How would you spend your time? Would you volunteer with something? Or do your current job? Or something completely different?

I have so much opportunity, but am completely overwhelmed with no confidence.

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Valeriekat · 03/04/2023 07:15

Take your time and look around. In the US they seem a lot more relaxed about changing jobs.

StamppotAndGravy · 03/04/2023 07:27

When did you arrive? I've found with ask my moved I get a honeymoon period of 3-6 months, then it's shit and lonely for 6 months, then you settle. Leave some of the exploring so you've still got things planned for during the shit 6 months

lowbutlucky · 03/04/2023 22:44

I'm well settled into life here in general, but not been working because of massive family illness.

I like it here very much but need something to do. Feels like I'm wasting time by not building a career.

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lowbutlucky · 04/04/2023 19:18

Any ideas? I just can't get motivated.

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StamppotAndGravy · 05/04/2023 07:37

Well, the blunt answer is start applying for jobs! What else do you want us to say? Presumably you have foreign qualifications and have been out off work for a while, so you might have to look beyond your normal range, which fixes your first question asking if you should look for a career change

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