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Messy Divorce - can he remove land registry charge on house?

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wtfishappening1 · 28/03/2023 19:19

'DH' and I are separated, divorce pending. Three kids of various ages. He's taken out bridging loan after bridging loan, doesn't work, is a liar, and actively trying to turn my children against me. I moved out and put a land registry charge on the house to stop him taking out more loans. He's threatening me with an emergency court hearing to have the charge removed and has said I will need to pay his legal fees. Can he do this?

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TheVanguardSix · 28/03/2023 19:24

Not at all.
Let him throw his toys out of the pram. Don’t sweat it. Seriously.

TheVanguardSix · 28/03/2023 19:29

I think a charge can only be removed once the debt is paid off and the Land Registry removes it, not the court. Though I can’t be 100%. Can you register home rights with LR? You should ring LR and they’ll guide you. They were very helpful in my own case.

Allmyplantsdie · 28/03/2023 19:33

No he can’t. If he could he wouldn’t be kicking off like this.

DelphiniumBlue · 28/03/2023 19:35

I'm assuming the charge is to notify would-be lenders that you have an interest in the former matrimonial home, so that they know they need your consent to any charge in their favour. So I can't see that any judge would agree to remove that while you still have an interest.
But yes, contact the Land Registry for advice ( I suspect "charge" might not be the right term).

canfor · 28/03/2023 19:42

If you call the Land Registry helpline they are often very good at explaining what is and what is not possible/usual. Give them a go.

wtfishappening1 · 28/03/2023 19:51

Thank you all, that's very reassuring. The attempts at bullying and intimidation are off the chart, it's making me question my own sanity. I had the charge (sorry if that's the wrong term - I suspect you are right) put on because although we are married, my name is not on the mortgage.
I will call the land registry helpline, I didn't know they had one!

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wtfishappening1 · 29/03/2023 17:33

TheVanguardSix · 28/03/2023 23:47

This is exactly what I've done, seems it has massively put a spanner in the works and he is trying to intimidate me into having it removed

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TheVanguardSix · 30/03/2023 15:05

Oh that’s perfect OP! You’re safe and sound. He can’t do a thing! But you can sleep soundly. 😆👏👏👏

Their responses to us protecting ourselves is oh so telling, isn’t it? He’s lost control and can’t handle it, bless.
Stay strong! 🤛

wtfishappening1 · 31/03/2023 16:28

TheVanguardSix · 30/03/2023 15:05

Oh that’s perfect OP! You’re safe and sound. He can’t do a thing! But you can sleep soundly. 😆👏👏👏

Their responses to us protecting ourselves is oh so telling, isn’t it? He’s lost control and can’t handle it, bless.
Stay strong! 🤛

I really love this reply, thank you x

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