'DH' and I are separated, divorce pending. Three kids of various ages. He's taken out bridging loan after bridging loan, doesn't work, is a liar, and actively trying to turn my children against me. I moved out and put a land registry charge on the house to stop him taking out more loans. He's threatening me with an emergency court hearing to have the charge removed and has said I will need to pay his legal fees. Can he do this?