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Man from Sport looks at my Chest/Bust

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girlfriend44 · 13/03/2023 21:09

There's a man at the mixed group where I play sport who always looks at my chest/ bust whatever you want to call it.
I know they are large but I never feel this with anyone else.
I always feel when we talk he looks there first.
So awkward. Wish he wouldn't.
Anyone else have this at Sport and does it bother you?

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Iam4eels · 13/03/2023 21:10

Call him out on it every time he does it, a firm reminder that "my eyes are up here".

MamaCanYouBuyMeABanana · 13/03/2023 21:11

There have been a fair few threads in the last week or so about various men looking down someone's top.

Might be worth having a look at some of those (unless they were all pulled) for advice.

girlfriend44 · 13/03/2023 21:21

Hes not looking down my top.

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Alfr · 13/03/2023 21:22

I find a cheery grin and a "Could you stop staring at my tits please" does the trick

FiveHundredDucksWentOutOneDay · 13/03/2023 21:25

Kneel down so your eyes are where your boobs were.

Gets the point across well.

FiveHundredDucksWentOutOneDay · 13/03/2023 21:25

Well, more of a crouch than a kneel, but you know what I mean I hope!

girlfriend44 · 13/03/2023 21:26

Alfr · 13/03/2023 21:22

I find a cheery grin and a "Could you stop staring at my tits please" does the trick

That's quite awkward to be honest. We see each other every week.

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Penguinsaregreat · 13/03/2023 21:27

I would stop talking to him, just blank him completely.
I would also mention it to everyone else so they are all aware of what a pervert he is.

picklemewalnuts · 13/03/2023 21:28

He's happy to embarrass you by doing it every week.

You only need to embarrass him by saying it once!

NotAnotherBathBomb · 13/03/2023 21:32

Yes I have the exact same thing at sport (wtf is ‘sport’?). Stares at my big ripe melons. 🍈 🍈

PoshCoffee · 13/03/2023 21:32

You either call him out on it or he’ll do it every week. Call the perve out OP, it he who should be embarrassed by this behaviour not you

userxx · 13/03/2023 21:33

Awww, were you a breast fed baby, I can tell.

It does the trick.

42isthemeaning · 13/03/2023 21:43

userxx · 13/03/2023 21:33

Awww, were you a breast fed baby, I can tell.

It does the trick.

This is brilliant! Grin

InSpainTheRain · 13/03/2023 22:07

"Have I spilt something down my top? You seem fascinated". Call him out on it - he'll stop

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