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Neighbour feeding gulls and pigeons

8 replies

YorkshirePuddingsGreatestFan · 04/03/2023 07:56

My neighbour throws large quantities of bread on her front garden around 7am every morning. As the mornings are getting lighter now, the pigeons and gulls start arriving on my roof from around 6.30am and run up and down and squawking until they get fed. I sleep right underneath and get woken daily by them thudding about above my head. It's going to get earlier as the mornings get lighter.

She doesn't even get any pleasure from watching the birds. I've seen her throwing the bread as she leaves the house to take the dog for a walk. She doesn't see them fighting over the bread, then shitting all over my stuff. I've constantly got bird poo splattered over my car, my drive and my windows.

If she wants to feed birds, I have no problem with her feeding small birds using bird feeders with seed and fat balls etc. It's feeding the large noisy birds that is the problem.

I've asked her several times not to do it and also said bread isn't good for birds so she's actually not being helpful. I've also asked her to feed them later in the day as a compromise. She refuses to listen though and keeps doing it early morning.

I've tried the council but they said it's a civil matter between neighbours and we have to sort it out ourselves.

I'm particularly grumpy this morning as I've had a tough week at work and I'm under the weather with a heavy cold. I was looking forward to a lie in this morning but I was woken up early by the sodding birds.

AIBU to think she should stop feeding birds?

OP posts:
Igenix4 · 04/03/2023 08:10

Tell her to be add in some peanuts, crows absolutely love them

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 04/03/2023 08:13

No advice, just sympathy. Our neighbour feeds foxes. Sad

parietal · 04/03/2023 08:15

Go back to the council. They can make her stop.

JMSA · 04/03/2023 08:16

It's so annoying that she is continuing to do this early, even when you've asked her to stop Sad
YANBU.

JMSA · 04/03/2023 08:17

And hope you feel better soon!

Glittertwins · 04/03/2023 08:18

We had a similar issue with a random man choosing to feed the local wildlife on what was actually someone's property- they got rats as well as the pigeons

Aprilx · 04/03/2023 08:20

If the council can’t / won’t help could you send a letter advising that you will require payment for regular cleaning of your car / drive etc.

LikeTearsInRain · 04/03/2023 08:21

My neighbours did this with pigeons for months. Really annoying. Then they got a cat (guess it was a rescue as never saw it as kitten size) and it took a few weeks for them to realise that throwing the bread out every day and letting the cat camp out in a bush, waiting to strike, probably wasn’t a good idea. They’ve stopped feeding them for now thank god.

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