I live very near Kate and I’m the same age. I’m also a very down to earth person and have lived through my fair share of chaos. That’s where most of the similarities end but I feel like she just needs a really good friend. She seems to look for this in her men because I don’t think she feels she can bond as easily with females. I was a bit similar as a teen but now I think I could be the voice of reason, support and female companion she needs.
Yes Im fully aware of how that sounds hence why I would never reach out to her because I have never been one to fan girl on anyone and that’s exactly how it would look. Yet these men she picks up take full advantage of who she is and the status of being a hanger on but that’s ok.
Thats all really. I admire her in many ways especially how she is with Harvey but I am saddened by some of her choices and I wish she could find some nice female friends who would support her. That might lessen the need to rely on user men who are clearly no good for her.