Feeling so Insecure about my post baby body

[Annabella91]

Feel so shit about my post baby body after having 3rdd 6 weeks ago i can't wear anthing nice because I look like sack of potatoes i feel so insecure i got asked to go out with friends for a night out but I haven't bothered because of my weight I don't feel worthy of having nice things or having me time.

You’re worthy of lovely things, time for yourself and to be kind to yourself and your body. How would you speak to a friend who was feeling like this?

I' would be there to listen without judgement.
I've always been like this since I've had children iv lost my confidence. I think my partner can do some much better size and looks wise i cant seem to stop thinking he fancies other women over me. I see his friends type of partners which are the opposite to me they all seem confident glam nice clothes slim figures and they always look amazing whereas I'm always run down hair scraped back no makeup on and flabby makes me feel worthless and not good enough 😭

He's mentioned about marriage proposal before but I think to myself I'd just be a fat bride and no wedding dress would even fit me.