Because of her dog?
Its a newish friend so haven't been to her house as yet. I saw her out with her dog however at the park and he jumped up at me and slobbered all over my face. I tried not to show my disgust and panic but was left unsettled. Now she keeps asking me to visit her at her home. I feel too embarrassed as a nearly middle aged woman to say I don't want to because of your dog......