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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think that Lauren should have just supported Heidi in the hills?

22 replies

hadntbeen · 19/01/2023 14:24

Re-watching the hills from season 1. Just on season 2 now where the fallout with Lauren and Heidi and Spencer happen.

I'm in a similar situation with my friend wherein I can't stand her boyfriend however I keep my mouth shut as I know it'll do no good voicing my concerns. So I say nothing and just support her and know I'll be there when it inevitably ends.

AIBU to think that Lauren should have done the same thing? I almost think that if Lauren had of kept quiet and watched from the sidelines, Spencer would have messed the relationship up and Lauren and Heidi would still be friends. By Lauren making things so difficult it became impossible for Heidi to stay friends with her and gave Spencer what he wanted - to isolate Heidi from her friends.

I noticed a few instances throughout the season when Heidi wanted to leave Spencer and she didn't because she was so dependent on him that he was literally the only person she has in LA.

AIBU? I'm over invested I know 😂

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HaddawayAndShite · 19/01/2023 14:29

Look at the absolutely state of Speidy now, and then look at LC. I say she made the right decision distancing herself from that absolute mess. Plus in Laguna Beach, Heidi was supposed to come to Laguna to model
for LCs charity fashion show and she ended up being best buds with Kristen, LCs mortal enemy! Not a nice person imo.

It was all scripted and set up anyway but dm an it got me invested.

washingmachineheart · 19/01/2023 14:31

Did he not leak Lauren’s sex tape? Entirely on Heidi to choose to stick by him fully aware of that. Although I haven’t watched in years so may be misremembering!

hadntbeen · 19/01/2023 14:34

washingmachineheart · 19/01/2023 14:31

Did he not leak Lauren’s sex tape? Entirely on Heidi to choose to stick by him fully aware of that. Although I haven’t watched in years so may be misremembering!

He did after the fall out yeah. But the fall out was caused by the fact that Lauren couldn't stand Spencer and refused to be around him (fair enough) but also that Heidi couldn't speak about him whilst they were hanging out (not fair when someone is a big part of your life and you can't even mention their name).

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Skinnermarink · 19/01/2023 14:37

Nah I was team LC. Heidi must have become very difficult to be around.

i always wonder what happened to the chihuahua puppy she banged on about getting for Christmas!! One episode and never seen again!

BethDuttonsTwin · 19/01/2023 14:37

Didn’t Spencer spread rumours about a Lauren/Brodie sex tape, and Heidi backed him?

LC totally right to get away from that toxic mess.

OhmygodDont · 19/01/2023 14:38

Well this brings back memories never liked Heidi and Spencer. Still don’t now.

Lauren was perfectly ok to have the boundaries of wanting zero to do or hear about Spencer.

Emmamoo89 · 19/01/2023 14:39

Back LC. Never fan of Heidi

willithappen · 19/01/2023 15:04

I mean the whole show was staged/fake so not sure how well to compare.
Let's say it was real - Spencer was a bad influence in Lauren's life so unfortunately she had to cut the friend out as well for her own sake and I think she did right thing

But yeah, it was all staged. Also good to listen to the podcast Back To The Beach with Kristen and Stephen and they go over episodes starting from Laguna Beach, soooo much learned

thebellagio · 19/01/2023 15:10

No one should ever choose Spencer over anyone. Hes an utter tool.

I don't think there was a sex tape - it never came to light and they both denied it. But Heidi admitted that her boyfriend made up the rumour about her best friend. That's an absolute deal breaker for me. LC did the right thing walking away

Out of the lot of them, I would say LC is probably the happiest with her life these days

ShakeYourFeathers · 19/01/2023 15:13

Gosh this is a blast from the past

I was definitely Team Lauren. And her feelings / thoughts about Spencer we completely valid. Spedi are we're/ are very toxic.

As anyone seen the reboot?

BethDuttonsTwin · 19/01/2023 15:27

willithappen · 19/01/2023 15:04

I mean the whole show was staged/fake so not sure how well to compare.
Let's say it was real - Spencer was a bad influence in Lauren's life so unfortunately she had to cut the friend out as well for her own sake and I think she did right thing

But yeah, it was all staged. Also good to listen to the podcast Back To The Beach with Kristen and Stephen and they go over episodes starting from Laguna Beach, soooo much learned

I don’t think it all was. There were some arguments on there where you could tell that the tears and fury were absolutely genuine. No one is that good an actor! It’s like most of these shows. Probably about 50% of the stuff they argue about is genuine but they stage manage the discussions/confrontations and hope that they’ll forget the cameras are on, and luckily they often do 😁

Cosycover · 19/01/2023 15:36

I think Lauren was way too over invested in her friends life's overall tbh.

But Speidi went bonkers at one stage so she made the right choice with that one.

What gets me though is the whole Jen Bunney saga. Jen and Brody were made up. Lauren and Brody were made up! So why did Lauren fall out with Jen?

Also I totally believe that Lauren did hook up with Justin Bobby. Rumours don't start from nothing.

WouldAnIdiotDoThat · 19/01/2023 15:47

I agree Lauren was over invested and should have just kept her mouth shut and kept the peace, but she was, what, 21? I think it's very normal to be a bit overdramatic at that age and not know when to pick your fights. She seems really happy now and I'm not sure that her and Heidi would have remained friends as they seem very different.

I don't want to believe she hooked up with Justin Bobby! He was the worst! Maybe the rumours were started by the TV crew to create drama...

TheOinkySplit · 19/01/2023 17:07

Haha I never heard the rumour about Lauren and Justin. I liked Whitney.

Flowerfairy101 · 19/01/2023 17:13

@ShakeYourFeathers I watched the reboot, loved the first season just for the nostalgia factor even though it was mainly total dross content wise. 2nd season I thought was awful, drama was at an all time low.

Wookiebowl · 19/01/2023 17:17

Part of being a good friend is being honest and I think actually it's important to think of yourself too. Spencer is a hideous person, its not just that they didn't get on but he's horrible af, I actually respect her for protecting her wellbeing by not wanting to be around him or to hear about him. Heidi's choice ultimately to prioritise that loser over close friends.

Effortlesslyaverage · 19/01/2023 21:32

Off topic a little, I just watched the first episode of back to the beach about Laguna Beach. Does anyone else think Kristen still likes Steven? They still have chemistry!

PinkArt · 19/01/2023 21:57

I want to forgive you...
...and I want to forget you

Odiebay · 19/01/2023 22:36

Iv been rewatching and feel like Lauren was that girl all her friends would bitch to about their boyfriends and not expect her to have an opinion. She actually liked Spencer until he was a douche to Heidi. Then it was made worse when he encouraged Jen and Brody to hook up. Problem is Heidi did it too but couldn't tell Lauren that so let her just blame it on Spencer.

Lauren was a great example on how to stick up for yourself. After the whole rumor situation she was right to distance herself but I can't blame her for being able to see what Spencer was trying to do to her and Heidi's friendship. Spencer is controlling. He wanted to make sure he was all Heidi had. Pushed her friends and family away. Sad really.

Whitney always seemed great .. she's a totally stoner now lol. She has reaction videos with her husband to the city and the hills on YouTube 🤣

There's no way Lauren hooked up with justin. 🤣

butterfliedtwo · 19/01/2023 22:42

Speidi was a shitshow. They still are. Lauren chose her own wellbeing. Good for her.

DashboardConfessional · 19/01/2023 22:43

Cosycover · 19/01/2023 15:36

I think Lauren was way too over invested in her friends life's overall tbh.

But Speidi went bonkers at one stage so she made the right choice with that one.

What gets me though is the whole Jen Bunney saga. Jen and Brody were made up. Lauren and Brody were made up! So why did Lauren fall out with Jen?

Also I totally believe that Lauren did hook up with Justin Bobby. Rumours don't start from nothing.

They actually fell out because someone was secretly recording the cast/selling out to the press. Jen told Lauren it was Lo, so they didn't talk for a couple of years. Lauren (and others) eventually suspected it was Jen.

BethDuttonsTwin · 20/01/2023 13:00

Thanks for bringing this to my attention OP. Have been listening today and realised at the end of the first one that I hadn’t stopped smiling throughout. Such a blast from the past and I have always liked KC and followed her career.

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