To want rude and nasty people to Fck right off

[thisisasurvivor]

Three people today I did favours for and got extra gifts for them only this week backstabbing me

Two within earshot of me and the other sent a nasty email after spending a day extra helping her

I know life is hard for many right now
But if people do something decent at least be kind back or say nothing

So so annoyed right now 🤷‍♀️😢😢😢😢

I know exactly how you feel. I helped a family member with her house and spent over 14000 and no thanks . When I needed a smell favour when my mother was sick she refused. My counsellor has taught me not to give so much of myself.

Ughhh it's the worse

Today there was no good reason for the bitching
A) I did nothing wrong

And b) I just spent almost 20 quid on cakes for them

It's just I wonder why are people like that

I don't give as much of myself as I used
I thought these people were genuine

Just annoyed I guess at myself mostly !!!

Also re hearing the bitching
Do I say that I heard it all or keep my distance?

You can’t buy people.

I don’t know what exactly they’re bitching about, but instead of buying them cake how about you stop doing the things that made them want to bitch about you?

My mum always throws money and gifts at people and then has an expectation of them being nice to her even though she’s being awful. Stop. Being. Awful. Keep your money.

Wasn't trying to buy them at all
I was trying to be kind

And to show something they did a while ago was appreciated

Instead they bitch about nothing

Back stabbers can Fck off

What were they bitching about? Three separate people bitching about you seems a lot.